Peña said:
What is to prevent her from going to the pool after you go to work? If you worry about everything a woman does it will drive you crazy. She can cheat with anybody at any place. It does not have to be at a public pool. Are you going to worry all the places she goes? Think about you and not her. Adding that much importance on her will ruin your frame and then she will cheat.
I get around, A LOT, especially weekdays. The weekend is when everyone is with their SO the most. When I am out there, I get flirted with (both hard and softly) by obviously married women (away from their husbands) and most likely, in some way or another, "attached" women. Some are overtly looking to get physical with me (rare though). Most would, the standard, flick their hair, purse lips, twirl, or turn submissively and look back at me, an invitation. MOST will just drop hints, give clues for you to advance, and engage them in convo. THIS, in my mind, is Cheating. It's careless "playfulness" that could very well lead to a liaison, and Quick. I can tell when a woman is not satisfied in her current relationship, as well as a woman who just wants to "live a little" and slip into a heat-of-the-moment progression (to fvck), though still wanting to fall back on her current man.
I'm just saying, on Summertime Weekdays at least (away from her hubby, maybe shopping, or at home, or at work, on her way to lunch, coming back from lunch, whatever she is doing on a Summertime Weekday), I get flirted with quite a bit. If a dude is alongside her (her beau), he will feel a sudden loss of her attention and an obvious insecurity when I walk past or as I pass. WOMEN, I say, look at other guys while out with her man, either equal to or MORE so than us guys do when we are out with them. Our eyes drift to other women, but they overtly detach from the guy she's with and focuses on You, the passerby interest comparison/contrast. Sometimes a woman will immediately feel ashamed of her man walking alongside her. I know the dude Feels this, eh 60% probably do not notice though. It's sad, she doesn't even Know me, but the comparison/contrast twirls in her mind if but for a moment in the day. I am not an Adonis, but her associations all come together on ME, she immediately builds me up in her mind to be much much much more than I am, just because, She Already HAS the dude by her side. She wants to Hop at what she sees, at what she perceives she's seeing.
I feel that if she knew the REAL ME, that she would stick with her beau, but she sees a clarity of value before her and it's obvious the "grass is greener on the other side" is flowing through her wanting veins. Women are deluded by their eyes quite often. They think they want me but to be with me, I know, would be to be in bondage, in Hell, cause I am really loyal to NO woman. I use/get tired of them all the time. I am a terrible "lover," good at sex though, just bad at really caring about most women, over the long haul, I guess because I've never produced a child with one, I guess, idk.
