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letting ur GF drink at a party...

illmatic1005

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if you're at a party with a lot of good-looking guys, would you let your gf drink when u know she gets extra horny when she does?

i was at a party and guys were telling me "you'd let your girl drink at a party''

i want my gf to have fun so i let her drink and i saw many guys hitting on her and she said 'i have a bf', but she showed some sexual signs

would u let ur gf drink at a party?
 

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If I was there, sure, as long as she makes sure to decline any advances toward her.

If I wasn't there, no.

If she doesn't decline the advances, flirts back, etc, then it's probably not the chick I want to be with anyway.
 

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figure out what the line you both don't want each other to cross is, and talk about it w/ her. it should be the same line for both of you
 

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she was given free will when she was created, who are you to take it away? how will you stop her from drinking at a party? throw a tantrum? call her daddy? break up with her ?
what if she decided you could no longer drink at a party or wear bluejeans or say the word wiener?
sounds a little silly huh?
if you don't like things, perhaps you should be thinking of not having a girlfriend or having a different one, one that does not drink.
 

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penkitten said:
she was given free will when she was created, who are you to take it away? how will you stop her from drinking at a party? throw a tantrum? call her daddy? break up with her ?
what if she decided you could no longer drink at a party or wear bluejeans or say the word wiener?
sounds a little silly huh?
if you don't like things, perhaps you should be thinking of not having a girlfriend or having a different one, one that does not drink.
:up: True words.
I hate it when guys say this.

I always tell the girl to do as she pleases as it reveals her true character.
 

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If you don't allow her to do it, she's just going to want to do it more. Then she'll be forced to do it behind your back, then that automatically puts her in a mischevious mood, it will be no big deal for her to continue the mischieveousness and go to the next level and cheat.

Like another poster said, let her drink and you will see her true colors. If she flirts back, consider yourself lucky, now you can get rid of her and find a quality women. Do you really want to settle down with a hor?

ps I bet your under 22 so it doesn't really matter at this age, its not like she's going to be your wife in 40 years still. So just have fun and enjoy it while you can. Learn from being with her and stick your **** in as many hors while you can.
 

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of course i will let her drink at the party. I'm the prize so if she decides to do something stupid while drunk with another guy, i'll move on to the NEXT best thing. To prevent your gf from drinking because you recognize other guys are there shows your level of game.

It's best to let her get drunk and see if she will do anything dumb, so you can know what you need to do from their.
 

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good thats what i did...i let her get drunk

she was flirting with some guy and saying and doing some sexual connotations and but i saw her say "i have a bf" and didnt do anything more then flirt...then she kept hugging and kissing me and kept saing ''that guys a friend and thats it..you are the only one i want blah blah blah"
 
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