"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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letting ur GF drink at a party...

illmatic1005

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if you're at a party with a lot of good-looking guys, would you let your gf drink when u know she gets extra horny when she does?

i was at a party and guys were telling me "you'd let your girl drink at a party''

i want my gf to have fun so i let her drink and i saw many guys hitting on her and she said 'i have a bf', but she showed some sexual signs

would u let ur gf drink at a party?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Incog

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If I was there, sure, as long as she makes sure to decline any advances toward her.

If I wasn't there, no.

If she doesn't decline the advances, flirts back, etc, then it's probably not the chick I want to be with anyway.
 

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figure out what the line you both don't want each other to cross is, and talk about it w/ her. it should be the same line for both of you
 

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she was given free will when she was created, who are you to take it away? how will you stop her from drinking at a party? throw a tantrum? call her daddy? break up with her ?
what if she decided you could no longer drink at a party or wear bluejeans or say the word wiener?
sounds a little silly huh?
if you don't like things, perhaps you should be thinking of not having a girlfriend or having a different one, one that does not drink.
 

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penkitten said:
she was given free will when she was created, who are you to take it away? how will you stop her from drinking at a party? throw a tantrum? call her daddy? break up with her ?
what if she decided you could no longer drink at a party or wear bluejeans or say the word wiener?
sounds a little silly huh?
if you don't like things, perhaps you should be thinking of not having a girlfriend or having a different one, one that does not drink.
:up: True words.
I hate it when guys say this.

I always tell the girl to do as she pleases as it reveals her true character.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you don't allow her to do it, she's just going to want to do it more. Then she'll be forced to do it behind your back, then that automatically puts her in a mischevious mood, it will be no big deal for her to continue the mischieveousness and go to the next level and cheat.

Like another poster said, let her drink and you will see her true colors. If she flirts back, consider yourself lucky, now you can get rid of her and find a quality women. Do you really want to settle down with a hor?

ps I bet your under 22 so it doesn't really matter at this age, its not like she's going to be your wife in 40 years still. So just have fun and enjoy it while you can. Learn from being with her and stick your **** in as many hors while you can.
 

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of course i will let her drink at the party. I'm the prize so if she decides to do something stupid while drunk with another guy, i'll move on to the NEXT best thing. To prevent your gf from drinking because you recognize other guys are there shows your level of game.

It's best to let her get drunk and see if she will do anything dumb, so you can know what you need to do from their.
 

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good thats what i did...i let her get drunk

she was flirting with some guy and saying and doing some sexual connotations and but i saw her say "i have a bf" and didnt do anything more then flirt...then she kept hugging and kissing me and kept saing ''that guys a friend and thats it..you are the only one i want blah blah blah"
 
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