Letting my life slip and neglecting a primary DJ princple.

[Dirtheart]

This thread is meant as a bit of a warning to all aspiring DJs.

I think it’s fair to say that since being hurt by my last break up, I have dedicated the past few months to examining my mistakes, improving my confidence and learning all the DJ advice I can. When I take on a challenge, I throw myself into it until I get the results I desire, but I now see that I have neglected a lot of important aspects of my life.

Everything I have learned and applied has benefitted me incredibly. For the first time I can recall, I am fully contented with myself, I’ve been having success with women and have conquered a lot of my fears. However, I woke up today feeling quite lousy. I started my usual positive and motivational affirmations and sat down to check my emails. Then it hit me: My life is a total mess right now!

Looking around my room, I see junk and clothes strewn everywhere. I have neglected my studies and still have a number of overdue essays to write. I am running out of money, I have debts to pay off and I still haven’t found a summer job.

By becoming contented with myself, I have stopped pushing myself. I’ve become so laid back that I lost the drive that made me who I am.

I’m beginning to see that contentment is every DJs enemy. When I look back at my life, it was discontentment that motivated me to improve myself.

I have also neglected one of the primary DJ principles: to have a life that doesn’t revolve around women.

Just be careful you don’t get too carried away with your DJ studies that you allow your life to stagnate.

 

[Sexual]

I know how you feel man.

I do the same thing and then all at once drop all my girls, get everything caught up, and then go back to work on new ones which still isn't good.

Good advice.

 

[WaterTiger]

Okay, I see you need a little motivation...

Whacks DirtHeart across the knuckes hard with a wooden ruler.

WAKE UP! Time to get with the program!!!

Were you raised in a barn? Pick this place up! I want it to SHINE! Then you are going to sit down and write those essays! Be sure double check your grammar & spelling!

When you're done writing those you can write out your resume and start applying for jobs!

DON'T JUST STAND THERE! MOVE! MOVE! MOVE!

Woo! That was FUN!

You feel motivated now???

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

If you'll take your own advice and stop your life from revolving around women then you'll have more YOU time.

I spend way more time at work, or working out than I ever will at meeting women. After all, I can meet women pretty much anywhere at anytime without even hardly trying.

WaterTiger is right on - DON'T JUST STAND THERE! MOVE! MOVE! MOVE!

 

[Dirtheart]

Thanks for the motivation. I'm getting things together now slowly, but surely...or I was until someone broke my knuckles with a ruler. Now I can't even write my essays.

But things are coming together a little better now. I've let my image go to hell the last few days, but I'm not going to be picking up any ladies while I'm writing essays, job applications and tidying up so I can live with that.

Hopefully, when I've got myself organised I'll be back on track with a clearer mind.