"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Letting Down a Friend Easy

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Hi DJs,

Recently, a female friend of mine (long time~6 yrs) has began flirting with me. For example, if I say something like "hey why'd you just touch my ass?" she'd say something like "my hand has the hots for you!" or some crap like that

Anyways, she's not SUPER attractive, but not bad either. I'd say HB6-7 (7 being generous). I at first I wasn't sure how to respond to this flirting, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to practice my skills and I flirted back anyways. My question is, how do I let her down easy if she decides to pursue this further?

I have a few lines in mind:

1. You're like a sister to me.
2. Lets just be friends.
3. It's not you....it's me.

Any other tips??? Anyone else been in this situation before? Gimme a shout! thanks : :) :) :) :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe she's just real comfortable with you and will joke with you like that...

I have a couple of real good female friends around the 26 yr old mark... easily HB8s, but she's like one of the guys, or a sister, and we joke about this kind of sh!t all the time...

What do you do? Just keep yourself busy don't recite the chick lines that you posted above... if you're fvckin other girls then there really is no issue... if she knows you, then she knows what the deal is... your situation should speak for itself
 
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alright good advice guys. If she progresses with it, I'll make sure she's joking. If she's not joking I'll let her down ASAP straightforward.

then I will go talk to girls i am intersted in sexually and flirt with them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage said:
If you don't want her then stop it. Go practice on girls you don't feel comfortable with and actually want them and that is how you are going to learn.
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Totally agree DJDamage. "Practicing" on a girl who is already fully flirting with you and obviously interested is like "practicing" hunting a dead animal. Totally useless.
 
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yes, thank you for repeating what i already knew from djdamage's post. totally useless
 
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Potbelly said:
yes, thank you for repeating what i already knew from djdamage's post. totally useless
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No need to get rude and sarcastic. I was not personally attacking you, I was attacking the idea you brought up. Grow up.
 
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