"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Letting Down a Friend Easy

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Hi DJs,

Recently, a female friend of mine (long time~6 yrs) has began flirting with me. For example, if I say something like "hey why'd you just touch my ass?" she'd say something like "my hand has the hots for you!" or some crap like that

Anyways, she's not SUPER attractive, but not bad either. I'd say HB6-7 (7 being generous). I at first I wasn't sure how to respond to this flirting, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to practice my skills and I flirted back anyways. My question is, how do I let her down easy if she decides to pursue this further?

I have a few lines in mind:

1. You're like a sister to me.
2. Lets just be friends.
3. It's not you....it's me.

Any other tips??? Anyone else been in this situation before? Gimme a shout! thanks : :) :) :) :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe she's just real comfortable with you and will joke with you like that...

I have a couple of real good female friends around the 26 yr old mark... easily HB8s, but she's like one of the guys, or a sister, and we joke about this kind of sh!t all the time...

What do you do? Just keep yourself busy don't recite the chick lines that you posted above... if you're fvckin other girls then there really is no issue... if she knows you, then she knows what the deal is... your situation should speak for itself
 
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alright good advice guys. If she progresses with it, I'll make sure she's joking. If she's not joking I'll let her down ASAP straightforward.

then I will go talk to girls i am intersted in sexually and flirt with them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage said:
If you don't want her then stop it. Go practice on girls you don't feel comfortable with and actually want them and that is how you are going to learn.
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Totally agree DJDamage. "Practicing" on a girl who is already fully flirting with you and obviously interested is like "practicing" hunting a dead animal. Totally useless.
 
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yes, thank you for repeating what i already knew from djdamage's post. totally useless
 
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Potbelly said:
yes, thank you for repeating what i already knew from djdamage's post. totally useless
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No need to get rude and sarcastic. I was not personally attacking you, I was attacking the idea you brought up. Grow up.
 
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