"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Letting a friend know his gf cheated on him with his "friend"

D

dk1990S111

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2014
Messages
673
Reaction score
208
Location
Los Angeles
Need your guys opinion.

This friend of mine has a smoking hot gf, she was in the hooters calendar lol anyways, they are constantly fighting over the years but always come back to eachother. No I highly doubt its love, its that he is rich and she is hot so neither thinks they can do better.

This past New Years they were fighting and I guess he was alone and was going to kill himself. He called my buddy W at the time to talk. (W and I stopped talking because I realized that he was fake as fvck around 6 months ago) Few months later while me and W are still friends W tells me that he fvcked the other guys girl.

I think about this all the time and feel that my buddy needs to know about it but he is obviously very unstable when he doesnt have her. Dont get me wrong he is pretty alpha but I guess she is his weakness.

Would you tell him? I have a text from W basically saying "he's a hater, thats why I fvcked his girl" so its not a case where they would be able to deny it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

djthiago1

djthiago1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2014
Messages
754
Reaction score
299
Age
32
Location
Brazil
What the heck, just do it. and as Drake would say: "YOLO". Show your friend the text and watch the fireworks.
 
D

dk1990S111

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2014
Messages
673
Reaction score
208
Location
Los Angeles
well ya that sounds easy enough but you know how people want to shoot the messenger. Thats the problem I am having, me telling him will ruin things between them. Obviously that is the way it should be but still, dont want him to get all pissed at me for filling him in on this.
 
djthiago1

djthiago1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2014
Messages
754
Reaction score
299
Age
32
Location
Brazil
Think about what how it would be if you were in his place. Would suck wouldn't it ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

D

dk1990S111

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2014
Messages
673
Reaction score
208
Location
Los Angeles
djthiago1 said:
Think about what how it would be if you were in his place. Would suck wouldn't it ?
Click to expand...
ya thats what I mean, I have thought about it both ways. not telling him atleast he is ignorantly happy (although right now they appear to be fighting so itd be a good time to tell him), telling him he will be pissed at the world and possibly kill himself since I doubt he will ever go back to her after finding this out.
 
djthiago1

djthiago1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2014
Messages
754
Reaction score
299
Age
32
Location
Brazil
dk1990S111 said:
ya thats what I mean, I have thought about it both ways. not telling him atleast he is ignorantly happy (although right now they appear to be fighting so itd be a good time to tell him), telling him he will be pissed at the world and possibly kill himself since I doubt he will ever go back to her after finding this out.
Click to expand...
Would you prefer and easy girl that does everything you want ? Or a hard headed, structured, challenge woman? Think with your brains not emotions.
 
D

dk1990S111

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2014
Messages
673
Reaction score
208
Location
Los Angeles
lol well she better not be hard headed and she better do everything I want in the bedroom so a little of both haha
 
gravityeyelids

gravityeyelids

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2013
Messages
918
Reaction score
192
well since W is not your friend and this rich dude with the hot GF is... you're obviously on his side.

This is a hard choice though IMO, because of two things:
1) If he's suicidal it could be dangerous to tell him.
2) Your hope is that he realizes what a cheating hoe bag she is and leaves her...however in all reality, do you think that's really going to happen? You say he's alpha but he seems like this girl kind of owns him. From the info you've given us i anticipate he'll get pissed at her for a while and then they'll just make up and he'll rationalize her cheating.

You know him better than us. I would err on the side of telling him. But only if you're sure he's not going to hurt himself and that he'll likely leave her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

D

dk1990S111

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2014
Messages
673
Reaction score
208
Location
Los Angeles
gravityeyelids said:
well since W is not your friend and this rich dude with the hot GF is... you're obviously on his side.

This is a hard choice though IMO, because of two things:
1) If he's suicidal it could be dangerous to tell him.
2) Your hope is that he realizes what a cheating hoe bag she is and leaves her...however in all reality, do you think that's really going to happen? You say he's alpha but he seems like this girl kind of owns him. From the info you've given us i anticipate he'll get pissed at her for a while and then they'll just make up and he'll rationalize her cheating.

You know him better than us. I would err on the side of telling him. But only if you're sure he's not going to hurt himself and that he'll likely leave her.
Click to expand...
Ya, thats how Im thinking. Leaning towards telling him and just letting him know that if he needs to talk to someone then I am there for him.

As for the bold part, if that happens then she ends up hating me and he wont be allowed to be my friend anymore lol
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top