"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let's talk Facial hair!.

Fatal Jay

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I don't think I will ever get ride of my mustache and chin hair

maybe for a brief moment for an experiment but that's it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zerro

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Couple of things I forgot:

Keep the hair around your mouth trimmed a bit shorter than the hair on your chinline. It looks a lot neater that way as those hairs tend to grow straight out rather than curve down. Also trim back any hairs that grow over the edge of your lips, chicks won't like those when you kiss them.

Also remember that using regular soap on facial hair will make it coarse and scratchy. It'll itch, you'll hate it, she'll hate it too. Use shampoo and conditioner (moisturizing, not fortifying) on your beard like you would for your hair and the whiskers will be much, much softer. There are also some specific beard washes, that although pricy, I like to use a couple times a week. Captain Bluebeard's is my favorite and woman appear to like the scent as well.
 

PackDaddy

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Had a no shave november beard grown out. shaved it yesterday. it was epic! i had a full man beard. not too long and unkempt, but long enough to tell females i don't give a ****, i have a lot of testosterone in my blood, and i would have my way with you. definitely got looks. some girls drip over raw masculinity like this.
 

Boilermaker

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Just my personal opinion, could well be off,

but my experience has been:

The more elaborate facial hair on the guy, the more insecure he is.

So my take on facial hair in general?

Gay.
 
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