I rejected a girl that my whole school is crazy about (she is kinda hot but normal blonde girl that managed her way to get on every guys pedestal) and it is basically I am new in this school and where I come from there are so many beautiful girls that this one can't even compare.Everyones calling me crazy for not even liking her. Have you ever rejected a girl that your AFC self would be crazy about. For whatever reason other than physical Im talking about rejecting or not wanting hot girls or do you bang them all?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Let's talk about rejection. (Us rejecting girls.)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well, recently I decided not to wish my favorite girl happy birthday when she had broken the rule I have that my dates have to send a thank-you text. She had to approach me a week later or we never would have spoken again. She did, and I'm about to see how it affected her. They say we only learn to love through rejection. They say that the crystallization process involves creeping doubt.
"Love never dies of starvation, but often of indigestion" - Ninon de Lenclos
"Love never dies of starvation, but often of indigestion" - Ninon de Lenclos
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Many times. In my tennis club there must be around 5 or 6 girls who's interested to me but I'm not into them. Some of my friends think I'm crazy because they are attractive but they're not high enough in my rating scale.
Even if i stay without a plate for a couple of months, i don't care.
If you have options and you can always lay the best women around you , avarage is not even an option.
Even if i stay without a plate for a couple of months, i don't care.
If you have options and you can always lay the best women around you , avarage is not even an option.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So the best is the "best looking"? You don't know how good at sex those who aren't as into themselves are...
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I never said the hottest ones could do the best sex. Sex isn't the most important thing for me ,though if a girl sucks at it i would stop dating her. It's the whole package that you get.
I have mentioned many times that I'm a person with very high status and almost everybody in my city knows me. A beautiful woman on your side can only add on your status. You can even make a name for yourself when you date only hot women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
exactly that, even though if i was leaving that tennis club one day i would bang them all in one week just because i can (ofcourse if they are bangable on my scale)
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Yeah she was the most popular girl in the school at the time. I just didn't really react to her attempts to try and get me. She ended up "taking a break" with him after a while and I still didn't make a move so I guess she took the hint. I prolly should have to be honest though, she definitely wasn't bad looking. Oh well, that was before I even knew about how to play the game and everything.
N2Deeep
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Dude, Im just learning how to play the game and Im 44 with 2 teenage sons! but at least we're learning ;-)
I just turned 17. damn.
and i dont think you need game just a little bit of working out and setting some priorities in life and thats it girls your generation saw it all and want to settle down.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
As long as you are making consistent progress, kudos to you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SgtSplacker
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I'm very particular with who I spend time with... So yes I reject many.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Most women are worthless, sad but true. The best filter is time. In time, the truth will reveal itself.
SgtSplacker
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You got that right, only after she starts feeling comfortable will she stop seeing things objectively and start basing everything off of emotion. Most women can turn off the emotion filter and make good and fair judgement calls if they really want to, just most don't. It's their own little private reality they suck us into.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yes, It's too bad, the codependency and narssistic supply afc's/beta's turn a blind eye to. Ladies get used to being princess.
Private reality? That's for whackjobs and nutcases. Who, wants to live with that???.... Oh wait, you just described my mother. Lol!!
I lived with that, for too many years!
Never again!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.