"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's talk about rejection. (Us rejecting girls.)

jebach123

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I rejected a girl that my whole school is crazy about (she is kinda hot but normal blonde girl that managed her way to get on every guys pedestal) and it is basically I am new in this school and where I come from there are so many beautiful girls that this one can't even compare.Everyones calling me crazy for not even liking her. Have you ever rejected a girl that your AFC self would be crazy about. For whatever reason other than physical Im talking about rejecting or not wanting hot girls or do you bang them all?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigneil

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Well, recently I decided not to wish my favorite girl happy birthday when she had broken the rule I have that my dates have to send a thank-you text. She had to approach me a week later or we never would have spoken again. She did, and I'm about to see how it affected her. They say we only learn to love through rejection. They say that the crystallization process involves creeping doubt.

"Love never dies of starvation, but often of indigestion" - Ninon de Lenclos
 

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Many times. In my tennis club there must be around 5 or 6 girls who's interested to me but I'm not into them. Some of my friends think I'm crazy because they are attractive but they're not high enough in my rating scale.
Even if i stay without a plate for a couple of months, i don't care.
If you have options and you can always lay the best women around you , avarage is not even an option.
 

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Many times. In my tennis club there must be around 5 or 6 girls who's interested to me but I'm not into them. Some of my friends think I'm crazy because they are attractive but they're not high enough in my rating scale.
Even if i stay without a plate for a couple of months, i don't care.
If you have options and you can always lay the best women around you , avarage is not even an option.
So the best is the "best looking"? You don't know how good at sex those who aren't as into themselves are...
 

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So the best is the "best looking"? You don't know how good at sex those who aren't as into themselves are...
I never said the hottest ones could do the best sex. Sex isn't the most important thing for me ,though if a girl sucks at it i would stop dating her. It's the whole package that you get.
I have mentioned many times that I'm a person with very high status and almost everybody in my city knows me. A beautiful woman on your side can only add on your status. You can even make a name for yourself when you date only hot women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jebach123

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Many times. In my tennis club there must be around 5 or 6 girls who's interested to me but I'm not into them. Some of my friends think I'm crazy because they are attractive but they're not high enough in my rating scale.
Even if i stay without a plate for a couple of months, i don't care.
If you have options and you can always lay the best women around you , avarage is not even an option.
exactly that, even though if i was leaving that tennis club one day i would bang them all in one week just because i can (ofcourse if they are bangable on my scale)
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Yeah she was the most popular girl in the school at the time. I just didn't really react to her attempts to try and get me. She ended up "taking a break" with him after a while and I still didn't make a move so I guess she took the hint. I prolly should have to be honest though, she definitely wasn't bad looking. Oh well, that was before I even knew about how to play the game and everything.
 

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Yeah she was the most popular girl in the school at the time. I just didn't really react to her attempts to try and get me. She ended up "taking a break" with him after a while and I still didn't make a move so I guess she took the hint. I prolly should have to be honest though, she definitely wasn't bad looking. Oh well, that was before I even knew about how to play the game and everything.
Dude, Im just learning how to play the game and Im 44 with 2 teenage sons! but at least we're learning ;-)
 

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Dude, Im just learning how to play the game and Im 44 with 2 teenage sons! but at least we're learning ;-)
I just turned 17. damn.

and i dont think you need game just a little bit of working out and setting some priorities in life and thats it girls your generation saw it all and want to settle down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SgtSplacker

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I'm very particular with who I spend time with... So yes I reject many.
 

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Most women are worthless, sad but true. The best filter is time. In time, the truth will reveal itself.
 

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Most women are worthless, sad but true. The best filter is time. In time, the truth will reveal itself.
You got that right, only after she starts feeling comfortable will she stop seeing things objectively and start basing everything off of emotion. Most women can turn off the emotion filter and make good and fair judgement calls if they really want to, just most don't. It's their own little private reality they suck us into.
 

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You got that right, only after she starts feeling comfortable will she stop seeing things objectively and start basing everything off of emotion. Most women can turn off the emotion filter and make good and fair judgement calls if they really want to, just most don't. It's their own little private reality they suck us into.
Yes, It's too bad, the codependency and narssistic supply afc's/beta's turn a blind eye to. Ladies get used to being princess.

Private reality? That's for whackjobs and nutcases. Who, wants to live with that???.... Oh wait, you just described my mother. Lol!!

I lived with that, for too many years!
Never again!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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