You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So everything that's not classical is either emo or fvck b1tch sh1t faggot wh0re? I did not know that.Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Well personally I'm not into emo, but at the same time the other extreme (music that goes like "fvck b1tch sh1t ****** faggot wh0re etc etc") kind of pisses me off too.
That's why I only listen to classical, and nothing else.
No. www.fourfa.comOriginally posted by MackJr
Is Linkin Park emo? I found that while I liked their musical arrangements (for the most part) their lyrics were pretty whiney. All of them about some guy whining about how he's lost his identity because of some b*tchy female.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NoOriginally posted by Duke
Let's talk about "emo."
Originally posted by MackJr
Is Linkin Park emo? I found that while I liked their musical arrangements (for the most part) their lyrics were pretty whiney. All of them about some guy whining about how he's lost his identity because of some b*tchy female.