"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's talk about baldness - did Prince William, who had been "cute" in his younger, hairy days get mogged by harry Harry once William went bald?

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
I just have to think that she gave Harry some royal-tier servicing of the Little Crown, and he just had to keep her around for that.
 

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Depends which area of the world.

In the West, it’s an issue but a man can get around it if he is tall, 6’2 or above.

In the East, it’s a huge issue, sexual attraction goes down the drain if a man is balding. Height is important not as much as the West.

Basically for sex and reproduction, women want height and hair,
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Will met Kate when he still had hair.
This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

 

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
 
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Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
I actually have a very good shock of hair in the front, and have been slicking my hair back to hide the big bald spot. I need to get some good hair spray. I had just been surfing the 'net, and I saw a picture of the very bald King Charles III, and it got me thinking.
 

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This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

He has good height, so it's not so bad.
 

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He has good height, so it's not so bad.
Height, hair, and money. @Mike32ct was the one who first promoted the importance of those 3 attributes in seduction, particularly for middle aged + men.

Prince William had status, money, and height before his hair started thinning prior to age 30.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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