"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's talk about baldness - did Prince William, who had been "cute" in his younger, hairy days get mogged by harry Harry once William went bald?

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
I just have to think that she gave Harry some royal-tier servicing of the Little Crown, and he just had to keep her around for that.
 

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Depends which area of the world.

In the West, it’s an issue but a man can get around it if he is tall, 6’2 or above.

In the East, it’s a huge issue, sexual attraction goes down the drain if a man is balding. Height is important not as much as the West.

Basically for sex and reproduction, women want height and hair,
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Will met Kate when he still had hair.
This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

 

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
 
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Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
I actually have a very good shock of hair in the front, and have been slicking my hair back to hide the big bald spot. I need to get some good hair spray. I had just been surfing the 'net, and I saw a picture of the very bald King Charles III, and it got me thinking.
 

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This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

He has good height, so it's not so bad.
 

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He has good height, so it's not so bad.
Height, hair, and money. @Mike32ct was the one who first promoted the importance of those 3 attributes in seduction, particularly for middle aged + men.

Prince William had status, money, and height before his hair started thinning prior to age 30.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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