"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let's talk about baldness - did Prince William, who had been "cute" in his younger, hairy days get mogged by harry Harry once William went bald?

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, Prince William's wife is just as hot that Megan Markel chick, with his baldness along with the status, he just comes off as ruggedly sophisticated to a lot of women I'm sure.
I just have to think that she gave Harry some royal-tier servicing of the Little Crown, and he just had to keep her around for that.
 

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Depends which area of the world.

In the West, it’s an issue but a man can get around it if he is tall, 6’2 or above.

In the East, it’s a huge issue, sexual attraction goes down the drain if a man is balding. Height is important not as much as the West.

Basically for sex and reproduction, women want height and hair,
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Will met Kate when he still had hair.
This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

 

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It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
 
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Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times

Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond mulling over such a topic, rather than going out into the wild and being more social?

If this is so, what concrete, tangible steps are you taking to address this "obstacle"?Have you

-Consulted a surgeon about getting a hair transplant

-Explored the many meds which are now on the market

-Looked into getting a toupee

-Challenged your assertion that this is as much of a hindrance as you currently believe it to be

If not, what's preventing you from doing so?
I actually have a very good shock of hair in the front, and have been slicking my hair back to hide the big bald spot. I need to get some good hair spray. I had just been surfing the 'net, and I saw a picture of the very bald King Charles III, and it got me thinking.
 

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This is true. Their whole interaction timeline is here. There are pictures included so the history of Prince William's hairline is evident. His hair was thinning by the time they got married in 2011.

He has good height, so it's not so bad.
 

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He has good height, so it's not so bad.
Height, hair, and money. @Mike32ct was the one who first promoted the importance of those 3 attributes in seduction, particularly for middle aged + men.

Prince William had status, money, and height before his hair started thinning prior to age 30.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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