Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You don't have people in the clubs going round and takin pics? You're Yorkshire based and I know they do that in Leeds... and its real big in Manchester
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, I gotta be honest here, I've REALLY been in a slump for a few days. Hey Jizz, do me a favour? Just post a pic of your "mum" for us to save me the trouble, as I too don't own a digital camera.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
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Sarge on...
I threw you a few "word" clues, didn't I?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mind your OWN p's and q's, little boy!
Nice Shezz!. She has a nice set of you know.... well bigger then anything I have attracted so farOriginally posted by The_Shezzler
Well since i dont have a camera - thats pretty hard.
But heres a pic of a girl i pulled 4 weeks ago.
I took her out about 3 weeks ago but she was kinda boring.. - I was supposed to be taking her out this week -but sarging took over, sunday - the actual Day3 proposal was a day of rest - but we'll have to reschedule.
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. But it's taking me a while to go threw all the DJ Bible material and then sorting it out and actually putting it to use but am getting there slowly.You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nice, err, arms on that bird there mate.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Well since i dont have a camera - thats pretty hard.
But heres a pic of a girl i pulled 4 weeks ago.
I took her out about 3 weeks ago but she was kinda boring.. - I was supposed to be taking her out this week -but sarging took over, sunday - the actual Day3 proposal was a day of rest - but we'll have to reschedule.
Ok - Not So Wowie - Your Turn
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Please dont' feed the trolls JC.Originally posted by JC Jerkson
JC