You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You don't have people in the clubs going round and takin pics? You're Yorkshire based and I know they do that in Leeds... and its real big in Manchester
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, I gotta be honest here, I've REALLY been in a slump for a few days. Hey Jizz, do me a favour? Just post a pic of your "mum" for us to save me the trouble, as I too don't own a digital camera.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
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Sarge on...
I threw you a few "word" clues, didn't I?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mind your OWN p's and q's, little boy!
Nice Shezz!. She has a nice set of you know.... well bigger then anything I have attracted so farOriginally posted by The_Shezzler
Well since i dont have a camera - thats pretty hard.
But heres a pic of a girl i pulled 4 weeks ago.
I took her out about 3 weeks ago but she was kinda boring.. - I was supposed to be taking her out this week -but sarging took over, sunday - the actual Day3 proposal was a day of rest - but we'll have to reschedule.
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. But it's taking me a while to go threw all the DJ Bible material and then sorting it out and actually putting it to use but am getting there slowly.Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nice, err, arms on that bird there mate.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Well since i dont have a camera - thats pretty hard.
But heres a pic of a girl i pulled 4 weeks ago.
I took her out about 3 weeks ago but she was kinda boring.. - I was supposed to be taking her out this week -but sarging took over, sunday - the actual Day3 proposal was a day of rest - but we'll have to reschedule.
Ok - Not So Wowie - Your Turn
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Please dont' feed the trolls JC.Originally posted by JC Jerkson
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