Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lets Settle This: HB Scale Comparison

ElStud

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Me and my friends could be right behind a chick and I'll go "So what about her, would you f*ck her man?". We don't care.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whatever works for ya.
 

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Kev07 said:
One of my coworkers got fired for this. Lady filed a complaint.
Yeah, best to not say that stuff at work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kev07 said:
One of my coworkers got fired for this. Lady filed a complaint.
Hey, good for him, getting fired for his natural desires? Screw the boss. She was probably a feminist.
 

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Serialized3 said:
You guys are nerds.
Besides, what's the purpose of everyone using the same system?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Besides, what's the purpose of everyone using the same system?
I'll admit, I have a system.

"Ugly", "Plain", "Cute", and "Hot". Most girls are Cute (with makeup on).

The whole HBx thing seems PUA-ish, juvenile and amateurish to me.

I was describing a successful pickup to one of my PUA friends, and he asked me what HB level she was. I was suprised because up until that point, I had never thought of rating her, and I had to stop and think about it, as I had always though of her as cute.

Your mileage may vary. :woo:
 

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But yeah, dude's boss was a loser and the girl was probably a b*tch. That b*tch should be HONORED to want to be f*cked by an Alpha Male.

Here's how I see things...

HB1 - Does that even exist?
HB2 - Really ugly.
HB3 - Kind of ugly.
HB4 - Alright, but not that good looking.
HB5 - Alright.
HB6 - Cute.
HB7 - Hot.
HB8 - Very hot.
HB9 - Fine.
HB10 - A damn fox.

I judge whether a chick is hot on two things, face and her body.
 

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It's all subjective. The whole scale is stupid. Another's mans junk is another man's treasure. I don't like the number system, serialzed's system better. If you tell your friend you went out on a date and he asks what number, just say she was good looking, cute, etc.

But I do agree that some guys over inflate the ratings of girls they fvcked, talked to, or their girlfriends. They're only cheating themselves.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well that's good. Sometimes a guy will be like "what about this chick I just met here's her picture" and to me, that's just f'ed up.

I went back and re-read your post. Even though it's superficial, I have to admit it was pretty damn funny.
The scale itself is superficial. Rating a girl on her looks is superficial!

Everyone who has a penis is superficial!
 

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ElStud said:
But yeah, dude's boss was a loser and the girl was probably a b*tch. That b*tch should be HONORED to want to be f*cked by an Alpha Male.

Here's how I see things...

HB1 - Does that even exist?
HB2 - Really ugly.
HB3 - Kind of ugly.
HB4 - Alright, but not that good looking.
HB5 - Alright.
HB6 - Cute.
HB7 - Hot.
HB8 - Very hot.
HB9 - Fine.
HB10 - A damn fox.

I judge whether a chick is hot on two things, face and her body.
This should be the new scale.
 

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ElStud said:
Yeah, it's because we have different taste mostly likely. Like I'm more into blonde girls, yet the guy who made the topic clearly isn't. I mean here are pictures of what'd I rank girls...

HB5:
http://www.bullz-eye.com/Models/200303Mary/Mary-19.jpg

HB6:
http://www.gadgetell.com/images/062006/newfirefoxmascot.jpg

HB7:
http://ec2.images-amazon.com/images..._sexy_girl_sexy_women_sexy_nude_sexy_babe.jpg

HB8:
http://www.bullz-eye.com/Models/200310Stacy/Stacy-18.jpg

HB9:
http://www.vegasinsider.com/images/model_images/denise6.jpg

HB10:
Don't know.

I'd honestly rank most celebrity girls in the 6-7 range unless they're like really hot. To me, one of the most important things when ranking a girl is her face. Like if she's got a cute face, good personality, but doesn't really have much of an ass or anything, I'd still screw her. But if she's not that good looking and does have those features though, I'd have to decide.
IMO your 5 has a great body and your 6 is better than your seven and nine.
 

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@ El Stud. The chicks you posted are all HB8+ IMO
 

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How would you feel if you knew some chick put a picture of you on the internet and had a bunch of anonymous strangers rating your physical appearance?

Anyway, everyone is different. If we all had the same tastes and interests this world would be boring.

The whole concept behind this thread makes me sick though. So why am I posting in it?

Interesting.
I'd be flattered. It'd be kinda neat.

How does this thread make you sick?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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May be the burger king. I don't know, it's just the rating of women solely based on their looks. Not like I don't do the same thing, because I do, but there's more to it than that. But like I said, on further reviewing of the OP, I was laughing. So what does that say? Who knows?
 

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I have seen two UG 1's in my life, they do exist, and I'd rather share my prison cell with Bubba than with either of them!! :)

Horrifying!!

I'd like to add, UG should be 1-4

AG (Average girl) 5-6

HB 7-10.

It should follow the bell curve. Very few UG 1's and very few HB 10's

Dietcoi
 

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I guess everyone is different. Eva Longoria is a 7 to me at most. she's short. Slighty bow legged,no boobs,big teeth and looks awful without make-up.

I think your #8 look better than her. The 9 had a good body, but the face is not too hot at all.
 

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There is no such thing as a an HB10 that you haven't slept with. The last point to half point is ALWAYS earned on performance. I'm sure you wouldn't buy a Maseratti if it had a VW engine under the hood.

That said the scale also has to be adjusted for geographic region. An HB 8 in Butte, Montana is an HB 5 in Los Angeles. You have to adjust the scale for concentration. Hot women don't congregate in remote places, they go where they know their looks will serve them best. This then increases the standard for that place since the field of competition is deeper. An HB 9.5 in South Beach, Miami etc. is well beyond anything NYC, Houston or Chicago could offer up. The rating curve is more pronounced. Conversley a Miami HB 7, becomes an HB 9.5 in Boise, Idaho. After having lived in Hollywood, Las Vegas and Orlando I think my standards are exceptionally high.
 

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It doesn't matter weather somebody agrees with your scale.
What matters is the scale so we can talk to each other and know what we mean.

If you are going to use the HB scale... then do it but know this:

HB starts @ 7!!!!!
UG
AG
HB
that is how this scale goes..

If you don't want to use it than fine, but if you do know how it works...

I still like mine for telling people
B-body
F-face

When I talk to my friends and they can see the girl we just say I'd Do her(ok), or Yikes...shes yours(fugly).. Or Gawd-Damn!(hot)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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