"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt said:
it's not good or bad, it's just a comparison. My waist is about 27-28 and my shoulders are about 46-47 :up:

You lucky S.O.B.

Chin ups really make a world of difference to your back when doing ALOT of them and frequently,I noticed that if i purposly overtrain a certain part of my body but having sufficiant rest,i can grow it at a more accelerated rate :D

How often are you hitting your back? I want mine as wide as possible as soon as possible.
i am insane.I have hit back and shoulders everyother day before and gotten really good results,though the only thing i do is either 100 pull ups alternating with chin ups and the only shoulder exsersize i do is military press,either high rep or high weight.that and curls.I have a barbell,weights and a pull up bar in my room ,that's all i need. :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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disfunktional said:
Damn, checking out some of these pics I have realised I'm not in good shape!!

http://82.111.140.37/IMGP0301.JPG

I'm 6ft 1, 81kg, no idea of BF% but I think it's much too high.

You guys think I need to be focusing on cutting and forget about lifting for the moment?

df

definitely do not forget about lifting. Also forget about "cutting" and read this--

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=84119

don't forget to always lift big. the bigger you lift the more fat you're going to feel like your losing.
 

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Cool thread. I don't have any pictures yet, I'll get some later. So far though I've been lifting about 4-5 days a week for 2 months and gained 10lbs of lean muscle despite my s.hitty diet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Espi said:
Of course, I'm reaching; you appear exceptionally fit. But if you're serious about taking your physique to the next level, adding some width to your back and shoulders will do wonders.
Thanks for the input. There are three areas that I'm focusing in on as of late;

-I want that full 'u' shape to each pec,my outer pecs kinda of lack compared to the rest of it

-Widen my upper back as you mentioned,this one drives me crazy

-Make my triceps bigger

I've really been hitting the wide grip rows and pulldowns HARD as of late,it's paying off but not as fast as I'd like it to. I'll look into the lat raises.

As for supplements,that's still a no-go for me. For my Omega-3s I just eat unsalted peanuts around the clock. I still don't touch creatine and for protein I just eat egg whites,ground turkey,tuna + a little cheese and I pound down milk all day.

Again,thanks for the input and advice.
 

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blinkwatt said:
As for supplements,that's still a no-go for me. For my Omega-3s I just eat unsalted peanuts around the clock.
peanuts don't have omega-3's.
 

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@ Espi,

Todays back workout today was bada55! It consist of;

Wide Grip Rear Pulldowns

This thing wear you lean forward and pull the bars back

Wide Grip Rows,I found the widest grip bar I could and went to town

Upright Rows

Wide Grip Front Pulldowns were I leaned back a little and pulled to my chest

Sorry I don't know the names. My upper back was stretching my wife beater by the time I left the gym,I think I'll stick to this wide grip stuff for awhile.
 

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Peanuts have a hell of a lot of omega-6 and naff all omega-3. Get your omega-3 from fish oil.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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having a wider than usual grip doesn't matter. You just look really stupid in the gym, open yourself to injury and reduce your amount of load. Having a wide back is all genetics.
 

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blinkwatt said:
I thought Omega 3s were the unsaturated fats?
no, not at all. Omega 3's are found in fish and flax and some other foodstuffs (walnuts) and the quality of these acids is highest in fish because it contains EPA/DHA as opposed to ALA etc.. of which the conversion rates to EPA/DHA is poor.

other unsaturated fats such as olive, rapeseed, peanut etc.. do not contain omega 3's. get your fish oil. if there's one supplement (which you could get from diet if you eat lots of salmon, herring etc) you should always get it's fish oil.

your fats should come from 10-40g fish oil a day, whatever you get in eggs and meat (and cheese, cream etc for the high fat guys), and the rest from mono's (olive oil etc) - the poly's for your EFA's (beware of too many non-omega3 poly's such as sunflower oil which can jack up estrogen), the saturates for hormone output and the mono's for easily-burned fuel.. (well, that's a very simplified version of it but that's the general gist)
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Having a wide back is all genetics.
not true.. wide-grip chins along with stretching and scapula manipulation (altering your skeletal structure) can dramatically change the width of your back.

I also think rack chins are better than regular chins for width as more load can be used.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
not true.. wide-grip chins along with stretching and scapula manipulation (altering your skeletal structure) can dramatically change the width of your back.

I also think rack chins are better than regular chins for width as more load can be used.

How in the hell are you supposed to alter your skeletal structure?!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
How in the hell are you supposed to alter your skeletal structure?!
it can be done while you're still young and the bone structure is fairly pliable. it can however screw you up if you overdo it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Espi said:
Awesome...I think it's great that you young guys are into learning fitness...you're doing your body and mind a helluva benefit; hope you keep up the the great work...
Man if only everyone else my age wanted to lift consistently. I've gone through several workout buddies until I found my current ones now,which are 21+y/o. My original lifting buds were my age,19 & 20,but damn were/are they inconsistent,one day they think they can lift another day they wanna go catch a movie. Figures,oh well,life goes on and so does my lifting.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Man if only everyone else my age wanted to lift consistently. I've gone through several workout buddies until I found my current ones now,which are 21+y/o. My original lifting buds were my age,19 & 20,but damn were/are they inconsistent,one day they think they can lift another day they wanna go catch a movie. Figures,oh well,life goes on and so does my lifting.
You workout for yourself, and you alone. Dont forget that.
 

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Flyer said:
You workout for yourself, and you alone. Dont forget that.

we'll he's not saying he wants to lift for them is he? i think what he's trying to say is that he wishes he had consistent partners. Generally i agree. It is a better experience when you have a spotter, someone to use the machine you're on while you're resting in between. Bits of chit chat here and there. Humans are social creatures by nature.
 

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I find I can lift more with a buddy there. Not to mention having someone to spot you.

Lifting with a buddy is a no-brainer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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