cablecow15
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yes indeed , I might make walmart my next point of interest after i go to the clubs this weekend
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lets revive 1 day to double your success !
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
cablecow15
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going out to night maybe ill get ten rejections maybe i wont , but im going to have a good time that's for sure
Eternal_water
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I'm trying this tonight for the first time If I don't bottle it, going at midnight to a club, gonna try some Mcchenrycruiser pick ups
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
cablecow15
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=1909032Eternal_water said:I'm trying this tonight for the first time If I don't bottle it, going at midnight to a club, gonna try some Mcchenrycruiser pick ups
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
that should help
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You might wanr to review your lnk, not working for m,w, I'll give ap rpoer report in the mornnign when I've sobered up an bit.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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im going out to the club tonight ( finally too been studying for 4 weeks straight ) time to relax and let loose. Ill post back my results I feel renewed after some previous events that unfolded today
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Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
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Cable, what link were you trying to post?
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
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eh the clubs are kind of lame now atleast around here they are. Im gonna stick to bars and parties
cablecow15
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXWflJS2TkE&feature=player_embedded#!Eternal_water said:Cable, what link were you trying to post?
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
my bad
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
dont be hard on yourself , keep at it , my first night out i didnt do anything , but each night out i had after that was progressively betterEternal_water said:Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
its funny really , the girls that want to dance with me are usually better looking that the ones that reject me , and ill notice as i look out over the club , that those girls will usually be stuck dancing with their friends as a third wheel when their friend gets someone to dance with.
or some girl with a bunch of fat friends will deny me and she will be stuck alone with her friends the entire night , because her friends are scaring any other guys off from her lol
my point is , ive turned rejection into a game , when they reject me , they rarely seem to have a good time after lol and that brings me joy