cablecow15
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yes indeed , I might make walmart my next point of interest after i go to the clubs this weekend
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lets revive 1 day to double your success !
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
going out to night maybe ill get ten rejections maybe i wont , but im going to have a good time that's for sure
Eternal_water
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I'm trying this tonight for the first time If I don't bottle it, going at midnight to a club, gonna try some Mcchenrycruiser pick ups
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
cablecow15
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=1909032Eternal_water said:I'm trying this tonight for the first time If I don't bottle it, going at midnight to a club, gonna try some Mcchenrycruiser pick ups
I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
that should help
Eternal_water
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You might wanr to review your lnk, not working for m,w, I'll give ap rpoer report in the mornnign when I've sobered up an bit.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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im going out to the club tonight ( finally too been studying for 4 weeks straight ) time to relax and let loose. Ill post back my results I feel renewed after some previous events that unfolded today
Eternal_water
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Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
Eternal_water
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Cable, what link were you trying to post?
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
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eh the clubs are kind of lame now atleast around here they are. Im gonna stick to bars and parties
cablecow15
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXWflJS2TkE&feature=player_embedded#!Eternal_water said:Cable, what link were you trying to post?
when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
my bad
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cablecow15
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dont be hard on yourself , keep at it , my first night out i didnt do anything , but each night out i had after that was progressively betterEternal_water said:Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)
to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.
Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.
I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.
Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.
Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.
Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.
Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really
To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
its funny really , the girls that want to dance with me are usually better looking that the ones that reject me , and ill notice as i look out over the club , that those girls will usually be stuck dancing with their friends as a third wheel when their friend gets someone to dance with.
or some girl with a bunch of fat friends will deny me and she will be stuck alone with her friends the entire night , because her friends are scaring any other guys off from her lol
my point is , ive turned rejection into a game , when they reject me , they rarely seem to have a good time after lol and that brings me joy