"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yes indeed , I might make walmart my next point of interest after i go to the clubs this weekend
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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going out to night maybe ill get ten rejections maybe i wont , but im going to have a good time that's for sure
 
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I'm trying this tonight for the first time If I don't bottle it, going at midnight to a club, gonna try some Mcchenrycruiser pick ups

I've never been rejected on the spot so I have major AA, maybe not after tonight.
 
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You might wanr to review your lnk, not working for m,w, I'll give ap rpoer report in the mornnign when I've sobered up an bit.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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im going out to the club tonight ( finally too been studying for 4 weeks straight ) time to relax and let loose. Ill post back my results I feel renewed after some previous events that unfolded today
 
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Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)

to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.

Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.

I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.

Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.

Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.

Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.

Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really

To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
 
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Cable, what link were you trying to post?

when I click on it, it simply brings up the quote option.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok so I went to a club alone last night for the first time (as in first time alone)

to get the 10 rejections, was harder than I thought.

Firstly the place was too loud to start a conversation with anyone, and it was also too crowded. I was also put off by the fact that they are hardly ever to be caught on their own.

I found one who was on her own but pussied out at the last second and turned away. Later I found another one, this one was sitting down looking at her phone so I forced myself into it.

Within seconds of talking to her I realise my mistake, she is smashed off her face, you know when they are close to tears and its just from alcohol, she was that drunk, couldn't stand up, and her phone didn't work (she was trying to call her friends) - I quickly moved on.

Eventually I found another and approached who wasn't drunk, didn't take long to get my first rejection, felt better after that.

Later I found 2 sitting on their own, and approached and got my second rejection, although I kind of cheated on that one by telling her the game and asking for the rejection like in the original post so it probably doesn't count.

Eventually I gave up on it and left, I realise I was probably giving out very insecure vibes being it my first time alone, but still only 3 approaches and I can't count the drunk one really

To recap I basically pussied out last night, dammm
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dont be hard on yourself , keep at it , my first night out i didnt do anything , but each night out i had after that was progressively better

its funny really , the girls that want to dance with me are usually better looking that the ones that reject me , and ill notice as i look out over the club , that those girls will usually be stuck dancing with their friends as a third wheel when their friend gets someone to dance with.

or some girl with a bunch of fat friends will deny me and she will be stuck alone with her friends the entire night , because her friends are scaring any other guys off from her lol

my point is , ive turned rejection into a game , when they reject me , they rarely seem to have a good time after lol and that brings me joy
 
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