"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let's play a game...sosuave tells me what to say to this girl

gravityeyelids

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Okay so i was talking to this girl on tinder...pulled her number...started talking to her via text. Played the question game, where you ask each other questions and you have to answer truthfully, got to sexual questions stuff like how many people have you slept with, etc. Pulled her snapchat, told her to pick a number 1,2 or 3, and she picked 3 so i sent her a picture of me in boxers (i workout brahs). she replied "what was 1?", and I said "you'll never know ;)"

She lives like 30 mins away and i'd like to get a lay out of this, but i dont really care, i'd almost rather just say rediculous things.

I texted her:

Me: Can i ask you a question?
Her: Yea?
Me: Would you like to meet up and have sex?
Her: What the ****?


tell me what to say now hahahahahah. Nothing that could get me in legal trouble or violent or racist or any of that sh!t
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
 

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well, she responded. Instead of just blocking you...

I wouldn't have been that direct....but hey, that's one way to cut to the chase...

I'd back pedal without looking like I'm back pedalling.

You: We're playing the question and answer game. Honest answers remember. It's okay to say no.

Also, after you sent her a pic, did she send one back? For future reference I always try to get them to send me pics, as a way of qualifying themselves. I only send them one, and only if they ask, and after they sent me some. Then if they ask for more, I say:"that's enough for now."

You don't want to look like you're trying to qualify yourself to them. That's a slippery slope...
 

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gravityeyelids said:
why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
Working on it...

Carry on.
 

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My 11 year old nephew came up with this response:

I'm giving you undeserved attention. How would you like me to entertain you tonight, my lady?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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