"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let's play a game...sosuave tells me what to say to this girl

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Okay so i was talking to this girl on tinder...pulled her number...started talking to her via text. Played the question game, where you ask each other questions and you have to answer truthfully, got to sexual questions stuff like how many people have you slept with, etc. Pulled her snapchat, told her to pick a number 1,2 or 3, and she picked 3 so i sent her a picture of me in boxers (i workout brahs). she replied "what was 1?", and I said "you'll never know ;)"

She lives like 30 mins away and i'd like to get a lay out of this, but i dont really care, i'd almost rather just say rediculous things.

I texted her:

Me: Can i ask you a question?
Her: Yea?
Me: Would you like to meet up and have sex?
Her: What the ****?


tell me what to say now hahahahahah. Nothing that could get me in legal trouble or violent or racist or any of that sh!t
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
 
Peaks&Valleys

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well, she responded. Instead of just blocking you...

I wouldn't have been that direct....but hey, that's one way to cut to the chase...

I'd back pedal without looking like I'm back pedalling.

You: We're playing the question and answer game. Honest answers remember. It's okay to say no.

Also, after you sent her a pic, did she send one back? For future reference I always try to get them to send me pics, as a way of qualifying themselves. I only send them one, and only if they ask, and after they sent me some. Then if they ask for more, I say:"that's enough for now."

You don't want to look like you're trying to qualify yourself to them. That's a slippery slope...
 
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gravityeyelids said:
why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
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Working on it...

Carry on.
 
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My 11 year old nephew came up with this response:

I'm giving you undeserved attention. How would you like me to entertain you tonight, my lady?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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