"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let's play a game...sosuave tells me what to say to this girl

gravityeyelids

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Okay so i was talking to this girl on tinder...pulled her number...started talking to her via text. Played the question game, where you ask each other questions and you have to answer truthfully, got to sexual questions stuff like how many people have you slept with, etc. Pulled her snapchat, told her to pick a number 1,2 or 3, and she picked 3 so i sent her a picture of me in boxers (i workout brahs). she replied "what was 1?", and I said "you'll never know ;)"

She lives like 30 mins away and i'd like to get a lay out of this, but i dont really care, i'd almost rather just say rediculous things.

I texted her:

Me: Can i ask you a question?
Her: Yea?
Me: Would you like to meet up and have sex?
Her: What the ****?


tell me what to say now hahahahahah. Nothing that could get me in legal trouble or violent or racist or any of that sh!t
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
 

Peaks&Valleys

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well, she responded. Instead of just blocking you...

I wouldn't have been that direct....but hey, that's one way to cut to the chase...

I'd back pedal without looking like I'm back pedalling.

You: We're playing the question and answer game. Honest answers remember. It's okay to say no.

Also, after you sent her a pic, did she send one back? For future reference I always try to get them to send me pics, as a way of qualifying themselves. I only send them one, and only if they ask, and after they sent me some. Then if they ask for more, I say:"that's enough for now."

You don't want to look like you're trying to qualify yourself to them. That's a slippery slope...
 

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gravityeyelids said:
why are you spamming my thread? Mods please ban this joker...his only three posts have been this same message
Working on it...

Carry on.
 

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My 11 year old nephew came up with this response:

I'm giving you undeserved attention. How would you like me to entertain you tonight, my lady?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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