She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Right.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Shut it, Relic. There's no way a fat gene suddenly became chronically widespread in North America and western Europe within the past 50-100 years.
FFS LOOK AT HALF OF ALL LAWS, people can and are put into categories, OVER 50's, Disabled, Mentally Retarted, HEAPS AND HEAPS.. When women by clothes, they are automatically judged by their dress size, IT HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. What do you think models are judged by ?? there personality ??I'm sorry that you misread what I said.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Go watch Super Size Me, and see how a young athletic guy can become out of shape, overweight, and unhealthy by a horrid diet, and then stop pretending you know what's up.
Tough crowd... :flowers:Originally posted by spider_007
my mother is very cute, but she is over weight. i've wached her strugle with it all her life. It aint puirty. I rembmer haw ashamed I was when she came to school meetings...... Not too many people can loose weight........In most cases it's genetic. I know a guy who eats junk food every 2 hours, but is skiny like a tooth pick.
Im not only talking about people who are fat. your making fun of people whos only crime was that they ware born ugly (like they had a fvcking choice.)
I'm glad to see haw "US, REALL MEN" are so wise and undertanding that we can make fun of people because of their looks.
nice
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oh shut up
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Again, go watch it and stop acting like you know what's up.Originally posted by TheRelic
Man give me strength.... still not reading, just to push your agenda
Anyway, carry on boys
Haha, i think this guy may have already beat you to it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.