Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Right.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Shut it, Relic. There's no way a fat gene suddenly became chronically widespread in North America and western Europe within the past 50-100 years.
FFS LOOK AT HALF OF ALL LAWS, people can and are put into categories, OVER 50's, Disabled, Mentally Retarted, HEAPS AND HEAPS.. When women by clothes, they are automatically judged by their dress size, IT HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. What do you think models are judged by ?? there personality ??I'm sorry that you misread what I said.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Go watch Super Size Me, and see how a young athletic guy can become out of shape, overweight, and unhealthy by a horrid diet, and then stop pretending you know what's up.
Tough crowd... :flowers:Originally posted by spider_007
my mother is very cute, but she is over weight. i've wached her strugle with it all her life. It aint puirty. I rembmer haw ashamed I was when she came to school meetings...... Not too many people can loose weight........In most cases it's genetic. I know a guy who eats junk food every 2 hours, but is skiny like a tooth pick.
Im not only talking about people who are fat. your making fun of people whos only crime was that they ware born ugly (like they had a fvcking choice.)
I'm glad to see haw "US, REALL MEN" are so wise and undertanding that we can make fun of people because of their looks.
nice
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
oh shut up
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Again, go watch it and stop acting like you know what's up.Originally posted by TheRelic
Man give me strength.... still not reading, just to push your agenda
Anyway, carry on boys
Haha, i think this guy may have already beat you to it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.