"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lets have a dj section for dj's over 23 so we can have good, mature, deep discussions

JUST ME

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and field experience- not in suggestions because noone will see this!


i think its a good idea.im tired of newbies posting obvious crap on the main board.im sure alot of them are 15-20, and are acting like they are so experienced.

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"sweetie, youre paying for dinner, right?"

Women avoid, men confront.

Only a REAL MAN admits his mistakes.

RULE#1-A woman knows in the first few minutes if she will sleep with you or not.

RULE#2-Regardless of her intentions, a woman will let you spend your time, money and attention on her.

RULE#3- You can't convince anyone to do anything.You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make 'em drink.


If we all took our OWN advice, we'd be alot smarter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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John Powers

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JUST ME,

I for one think that's a great idea. I'm no master DJ by any sorts, but I have reading this site for a long time, I don't post too much, but it seems as though this site is getting younger and less mature as time goes on. Of course part of the problem is that high school age kids aren't using that forum, so perhaps having yet another forum for older guys won't change anything. Regardless, I'm tired of seeing people giving out advice left and right like they know what they're doing and then seeing posts where they are asking questions that make it clear that they have no idea at all what to do with basic situations. Oh, and while we're talking about it, it would also be nice to be able to read posts with something resembling proper spelling and grammar. It would be nice if there was something that we could do.

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We cannot reason ourselves out of our basic irrationality.
All we can do is learn the art of being irrational in
a reasonable way. -- Island -- Aldous Huxley

John Powers -out!
 

Bungo Pony

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The problem I have is with the newbies giving advice. A lot of it is the common dating 5hit that is written in the latest Maxim or Stuff magazine. I've read some of the 5hit in there & it's all instructions on how to be another common AFC.

When I came here about a year ago, all I did was post experiences and ask for advice, suggestions & comments. I'm still learning, but I've put into practiced what I've learned from here. All in all, I'm turning out to be a pretty damn good DJ.

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"Look in your mirror, It'll tell you the truth,
Don't waste your time away
Thinkin' bout yesterday's blues" - Richie Sambora
 

stuartSan

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"and field experience- not in suggestions because noone will see this!"

Still needs to be moved to Suggestion Forums.

Rules are rules.
 

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You'd have the same problem the Main forum does now, lots of repeditive posts from younger people in your new forum unless of course it was zelously policed.

[This message has been edited by KnightErrant (edited 10-07-2002).]
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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