"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let's get Jaws the most liked poster in SoSuave history...

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Right now I'm pulling about 1 like for every 2.6 posts. This clearly won't do.

You guys should thumb up my comments in order to pull up an underdog like me to your level. I'm one of the only posters here who is not a multi-millionaire, not banging Instagram models and sharing the field reports, and not flipping houses on the daily like a fat kid eats cake.

Give me something so that I can feel welcome here. I remember the most liked poster in SoSuave history was "dating" multiple escorts at a time and calling them his "girlfriends".

He's banned now for threatening to punch another poster in the face at an airport, but you still liked his stuff in record numbers despite his stance on prostitution, while I get attacked for mine. Seems hypocritical.

Please help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What I'm trying to say is how can one get to be most liked on SS without spending most of their alleged DJ "life" on SS? Let's make Jaws SS most liked with least time spent on SS. Help a brother out.
 

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How does getting "likes" profitable?

If there's no profit to be had then it's useless and meaningless
 

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How does getting "likes" profitable?

If there's no profit to be had then it's useless and meaningless
Then teach me how to flip a house with no initial investment.

I'm excited.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Neil? Is that you?
Unfortunately Big Neil was banned for life after reaching the pinnacle of success on SS. R.I.P

Word around town is BN is now going for most liked on loveshack.
 

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Big Neil? Is that you?
It's Tenacity, he mentioned it in another thread and was subsequently banned, again.

if the creator of that thread and those on his side (myself, @Tenacity ) weren't banned immediately.
If you click the up arrow next to "Jaws said:" in this quote it will take you to the post he said this in.
 

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Then teach me how to flip a house with no initial investment.

I'm excited.
Only person here who's flipping houses is BE and Richard aka Richie Rich the frog.

I'd be suspicious if they said okay, how do they profit by teaching you anything?
 

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If anything can be learned from this thread.... it is that the key to getting people, and chicks, to like you is to not care if you are liked.

Your self-esteem should never rely on the approval of others. If it does, then you come off as having suplicative behavior... which is needy and weak.
 

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If anything can be learned from this thread.... it is that the key to getting people, and chicks, to like you is to not care if you are liked.

Your self-esteem should never rely on the approval of others. If it does, then you come off as having suplicative behavior... which is needy and weak.
You can have a like for that, lol.

Also I love these generalisations. Apparently "all of us" liked some guy who used to hang with prostitutes...err, can't say I ever did. Didn't even know the guy, wasn't here when he was about but I probably would have called him on the BS.

There are definitely people who BS on this site but it's usually painfully obvious that they're insecure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moderators....No value thread... Trolling... smh
 
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