"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lets figure out 'The Ultimate Charmer'

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I hope to mesmerize a woman or every woman i come in contact with.

but yeah guitarjedi statement of jedi movie is charming but more importantly unique and i also think that when u add unique with charming, it more powerful because your not only trying to charm her, ur trying to mesmerize her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: 1. as david deangelo says 'Charm is exaggerating the double take'

Originally posted by alphamale1
(I like to thank David DeAngelo and his audience for this example)

Hey Guys,

Chicks in a cafe shop next to the window.

You: (walking past the cafe window)
You: (you spot some attractive women through the cafe window)
You: (they spot u)
You: (you can walking and then u STOP)
You: (walk back and walk back keeping ur body facing the way u were gonna walk)
You: (once u get back to the spot u notice them, look at them all)
You: (smile and emit the 'yeah' attitude)

They will smile at u and laugh happily and u can easily go in if u wish and they will welcome u.

Ben
note: David D. mentioned that this works well, only if there is a pane of glass between you, also that there has to be a walk buy, stop, and walk back.

ALSO: maybe this only works for me, that is is what I see it meaning, but something I heard someone say was "walk into a room like you mean it" I walk around all the time like I mean it. This made me appear more confident and charming. Now, when I speak, all heads turn my way. When I'm in a queue somehwere, like today at walmart, a woman just started talking to me, because I was standing there like I meant it. Random people didn't used to just talk to me freely before, even when in a long long line.... does this make sense to anyone else?
 

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When I'm in a queue somehwere, like today at walmart, a woman just started talking to me, because I was standing there like I meant it.
Yeah I get girls coming up to me when I line up at the seven eleven. They crowd around because they KNOW when I queue up I mean business.

I'm alphamale all the way, not like those lame AFCs who don't even look like they mean to queue up. Cmon those wussys look like they are buying trim milk or something.

I slap my dollar on the counter and ask for my slushy. I do it in such a charming way that they can't help but pour me a refreshing strawberry ice beverage.

Remember the key is to ask for the slushy like you mean it.
 

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and yes spidersense ur right, david d did say that there has to be a pane of glasses, so that the girls can freely let go off themselves and laugh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A girl told me:

Charming is when u charm a woman by saying exactly what she wants to hear.

then she goes on to ask 'how does a guy know what to say?'

interesting dont u agree?

Ben
 
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