"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lets figure out 'The Ultimate Charmer'

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I hope to mesmerize a woman or every woman i come in contact with.

but yeah guitarjedi statement of jedi movie is charming but more importantly unique and i also think that when u add unique with charming, it more powerful because your not only trying to charm her, ur trying to mesmerize her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: 1. as david deangelo says 'Charm is exaggerating the double take'

Originally posted by alphamale1
(I like to thank David DeAngelo and his audience for this example)

Hey Guys,

Chicks in a cafe shop next to the window.

You: (walking past the cafe window)
You: (you spot some attractive women through the cafe window)
You: (they spot u)
You: (you can walking and then u STOP)
You: (walk back and walk back keeping ur body facing the way u were gonna walk)
You: (once u get back to the spot u notice them, look at them all)
You: (smile and emit the 'yeah' attitude)

They will smile at u and laugh happily and u can easily go in if u wish and they will welcome u.

Ben
note: David D. mentioned that this works well, only if there is a pane of glass between you, also that there has to be a walk buy, stop, and walk back.

ALSO: maybe this only works for me, that is is what I see it meaning, but something I heard someone say was "walk into a room like you mean it" I walk around all the time like I mean it. This made me appear more confident and charming. Now, when I speak, all heads turn my way. When I'm in a queue somehwere, like today at walmart, a woman just started talking to me, because I was standing there like I meant it. Random people didn't used to just talk to me freely before, even when in a long long line.... does this make sense to anyone else?
 

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When I'm in a queue somehwere, like today at walmart, a woman just started talking to me, because I was standing there like I meant it.
Yeah I get girls coming up to me when I line up at the seven eleven. They crowd around because they KNOW when I queue up I mean business.

I'm alphamale all the way, not like those lame AFCs who don't even look like they mean to queue up. Cmon those wussys look like they are buying trim milk or something.

I slap my dollar on the counter and ask for my slushy. I do it in such a charming way that they can't help but pour me a refreshing strawberry ice beverage.

Remember the key is to ask for the slushy like you mean it.
 

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and yes spidersense ur right, david d did say that there has to be a pane of glasses, so that the girls can freely let go off themselves and laugh.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A girl told me:

Charming is when u charm a woman by saying exactly what she wants to hear.

then she goes on to ask 'how does a guy know what to say?'

interesting dont u agree?

Ben
 
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