trickynick
Master Don Juan
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You either own the game or it owns you!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why????Originally posted by trickynick:
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Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.Originally posted by Mark:
Why????
Can you post some threads that he did?
Fvck you.Originally posted by galactus:
Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.
"Fvck you"? This is cleaning up your act?Originally posted by Mark:
Fvck you.Originally posted by galactus:
Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.
What I do to you?
I don't make fun of you. And I told you I cleaned up my act.
You guys are the ones being pr1cks now.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Trickynick, I haven't seen him throwing a narcissistic rage recently. Or, have I missed it that again?Originally posted by trickynick:
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Originally posted by trickynick:
galactus and Mark,
The purpose of this thread was not for you two to have a flame war. You two already got one thread closed in here doing this. Don't hi-jack my topic.
BTW Mark, I am not impressed with this. We have a truce now, remember?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by Mark:
I didn't do anything to him.......
sh1t we're just acting like little whiny babies aren't we???
I'll be the adult and stop it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.