trickynick
Master Don Juan
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You either own the game or it owns you!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why????Originally posted by trickynick:
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Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.Originally posted by Mark:
Why????
Can you post some threads that he did?
Fvck you.Originally posted by galactus:
Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.
"Fvck you"? This is cleaning up your act?Originally posted by Mark:
Fvck you.Originally posted by galactus:
Just reread your own posts. They're remarkably similar.
What I do to you?
I don't make fun of you. And I told you I cleaned up my act.
You guys are the ones being pr1cks now.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Trickynick, I haven't seen him throwing a narcissistic rage recently. Or, have I missed it that again?Originally posted by trickynick:
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Originally posted by trickynick:
galactus and Mark,
The purpose of this thread was not for you two to have a flame war. You two already got one thread closed in here doing this. Don't hi-jack my topic.
BTW Mark, I am not impressed with this. We have a truce now, remember?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by Mark:
I didn't do anything to him.......
sh1t we're just acting like little whiny babies aren't we???
I'll be the adult and stop it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.