You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lets notLet's All Post Pics...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i agree this thread is a bit pointless. but in response to what you said, why would your entire game/persona be ruined?Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
There's a thread in anything else that is for pic posting. go there.
Many of us would rather not post a pic, because if someone identifies us, our entire game/persona that we work so hard to build and become could be ruined...
I'm secure enough with myself that I don't need anyone on here's opinion of my looks. I know I'm a good looking guy, so that's all that matters... anyone else's opinion is just that... an opinion.
One of the reasons I've never done it. Just emagine the embarasment of people you know (your friends) making fun of you for going on internat to find out haw to woo chicks....Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Many of us would rather not post a pic, because if someone identifies us, our entire game/persona that we work so hard to build and become could be ruined...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok I have a before an after picture guys. This is me before SoSuave:Originally posted by eLMac
So we can see how alpha each of us look in real life.
And we can see if the DJ's are good looking and if the AFC's are not so good looking.
It'll will be good for feedback and clothing, Body Language, Styling tips etc.
yeah, i have one or two threads that i wouldn't want everyone to see.Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Yeah, I'm not saying that I'm tricking anyone.... It just comes down to knowing what the general population is like.
They see a guy coming on here and trying to improve himself, and they twist it in their head. It becomes a negative thing, like what we do here is some sort of voodoo jedi mind trick or something.
They will think that the only reason I am Alpha, in my group is because I come on here and learn... and they will think that I AM tricking them, somehow.....
get what I'm saying?
Also, I'm in the spotlight, quite a bit, so I'd rather keep my online identity fairly secret. There are many lurkers that we don't even see.
So, I do agree with what you're saying, but I hope you can understand my angle, as well.
and, if you are identified, it's not too difficult to use the ol' search function and dig up all the threads and posts that you've written.
There's alot of dirt on here that we mean only for the forum members, and no one else.
Some of my closest freinds know that I come on here...(at least that I used to come on here) They've checked it out, too but aren't really ready to accept the hard truths about what happens in the dating world. They respect me, because they know that I am right... but they value different things and aren't into becoming the best they can be in every aspect of their lives, because they are happy with what they are doing.
I guess what I'm saying is that I personally am a very private guy... and i come on here and talk about some things that I would never talk about publicly...
Agreed. I did post some pics a while ago, but I've removed them since then just in case I get spotted.Originally posted by spider_007
One of the reasons I've never done it. Just emagine the embarasment of people you know (your friends) making fun of you for going on internat to find out haw to woo chicks....
Originally posted by h2o
there is a "Post your picture ONLY" thread already: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30488&highlight=post