"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just moved into a new townhouse that is in a small development with only 28 or so units. This is going to be the sweetest place to live in town. Walking distance to all the bars and clubs downtown, each unit is three stories and most have a deck and jacuzzi on the roof. I call mine the "pimp palace" lol! I'm in the process of painting and decking it out. This place is going to be unbelieveable when I get finished.

Last night I went to a party that one of my neighbors was having, so I got to meet several of my other neighbors. They are all super cool people, professionals, all around my age, and they all like to party. They are trying to organize a little block party thing. Jeezus, if we do this we will have half of the city partying in our complex!

Let the good times roll.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by STR8UP
I just moved into a new townhouse that is in a small development with only 28 or so units. This is going to be the sweetest place to live in town. Walking distance to all the bars and clubs downtown, each unit is three stories and most have a deck and jacuzzi on the roof. I call mine the "pimp palace" lol! I'm in the process of painting and decking it out. This place is going to be unbelieveable when I get finished.

Last night I went to a party that one of my neighbors was having, so I got to meet several of my other neighbors. They are all super cool people, professionals, all around my age, and they all like to party. They are trying to organize a little block party thing. Jeezus, if we do this we will have half of the city partying in our complex!

Let the good times roll.....
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yeah well get this, i got my own room and its right next to my moms room. let the good times roll!:(
 
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Originally posted by DJDanny
how old are ya?

Any pics of your palace?
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I'm 34.

No pics....I might, repeat MIGHT post some when I get a little closer to being finished.
 
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Bro you could start your own bar or resturant even. That can be a lucrative business.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Excellent work dude :)

Would love to see some pics when done.
 
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Str8Up: Do you own this development or are you just renting? I'm actively starting to invest now, within the next month or two I'm hoping to get my first building.
 
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Originally posted by Page
Str8Up: Do you own this development or are you just renting? I'm actively starting to invest now, within the next month or two I'm hoping to get my first building.
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I am renting the unit currently, but I have a purchase contract to buy it that is set to close in January. At that time I will "officially" own the unit, although the guy who sold it to me lives in CA and has never even seen the unit, so I am basically doing whatever I want to it.

Good deal...you are ready to jump into the game, that's great! Keep in mind that it takes time. You likely won't get a payoff for awhile, but when it comes it's SWEET. I can't imagine my life being any other way....I sleep late, make a few phone calls and whatnot and usually have the rest of the day to myself. For the most part all of my weekends and holidays are free, I can vacation whenever I want, it really is a great way to live. Congrats, you are on the right path.

I will try to post pics when I get it closer to being finished. Should be good inspiration for anyone who wants to choose this path.
 
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