Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Let the party begin...

STR8UP

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I just moved into a new townhouse that is in a small development with only 28 or so units. This is going to be the sweetest place to live in town. Walking distance to all the bars and clubs downtown, each unit is three stories and most have a deck and jacuzzi on the roof. I call mine the "pimp palace" lol! I'm in the process of painting and decking it out. This place is going to be unbelieveable when I get finished.

Last night I went to a party that one of my neighbors was having, so I got to meet several of my other neighbors. They are all super cool people, professionals, all around my age, and they all like to party. They are trying to organize a little block party thing. Jeezus, if we do this we will have half of the city partying in our complex!

Let the good times roll.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by STR8UP
I just moved into a new townhouse that is in a small development with only 28 or so units. This is going to be the sweetest place to live in town. Walking distance to all the bars and clubs downtown, each unit is three stories and most have a deck and jacuzzi on the roof. I call mine the "pimp palace" lol! I'm in the process of painting and decking it out. This place is going to be unbelieveable when I get finished.

Last night I went to a party that one of my neighbors was having, so I got to meet several of my other neighbors. They are all super cool people, professionals, all around my age, and they all like to party. They are trying to organize a little block party thing. Jeezus, if we do this we will have half of the city partying in our complex!

Let the good times roll.....
yeah well get this, i got my own room and its right next to my moms room. let the good times roll!:(
 

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Originally posted by DJDanny
how old are ya?

Any pics of your palace?
I'm 34.

No pics....I might, repeat MIGHT post some when I get a little closer to being finished.
 

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Bro you could start your own bar or resturant even. That can be a lucrative business.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Excellent work dude :)

Would love to see some pics when done.
 

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Str8Up: Do you own this development or are you just renting? I'm actively starting to invest now, within the next month or two I'm hoping to get my first building.
 

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Originally posted by Page
Str8Up: Do you own this development or are you just renting? I'm actively starting to invest now, within the next month or two I'm hoping to get my first building.
I am renting the unit currently, but I have a purchase contract to buy it that is set to close in January. At that time I will "officially" own the unit, although the guy who sold it to me lives in CA and has never even seen the unit, so I am basically doing whatever I want to it.

Good deal...you are ready to jump into the game, that's great! Keep in mind that it takes time. You likely won't get a payoff for awhile, but when it comes it's SWEET. I can't imagine my life being any other way....I sleep late, make a few phone calls and whatnot and usually have the rest of the day to myself. For the most part all of my weekends and holidays are free, I can vacation whenever I want, it really is a great way to live. Congrats, you are on the right path.

I will try to post pics when I get it closer to being finished. Should be good inspiration for anyone who wants to choose this path.
 
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