You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My Honest Opinion. HORRIBLE decision. Why? because why the hell would she want to go out with her Ex again? dude, this is the guy that pounded her before you. If shes your G/F, she has no Business with him.Raikojo17 said:
Yeah, these hors know this!!! dude says, "Try it on" "Stick your ass out" "Yeah that looks good on you"....all the while the hor is frolicking about in jubilation that he is lusting after her and she will soon have a new hor-fit!!!ElChoclo said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:yes:jonwon said:
I the first 2 days she's shown she deceitful for her own benefit. LOL... if there ever was a red flag, this is it.Raikojo17 said:
Yes, this is the point - why would she even consider such a proposal in the first place? Why tell her pimp? To make him jealous? Have him bu her clothes?jonwon said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The point is they will not be free - this will open the door for him to contact her again and again and again and make her feel obligated!!backbreaker said:
Yes another point put across, the GF is clearly in touch with the ex who is stating a sure sign of sexual interest in the girl, well she may as well get some clothes out of it, since the guy (OP) does not seem to mind that his GF is thinking of entertaining some Ex-Fuc* to the point of letting him buy her cloths or spend the day with here.backbreaker said: