You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My Honest Opinion. HORRIBLE decision. Why? because why the hell would she want to go out with her Ex again? dude, this is the guy that pounded her before you. If shes your G/F, she has no Business with him.Raikojo17 said:
Yeah, these hors know this!!! dude says, "Try it on" "Stick your ass out" "Yeah that looks good on you"....all the while the hor is frolicking about in jubilation that he is lusting after her and she will soon have a new hor-fit!!!ElChoclo said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
:yes:jonwon said:
I the first 2 days she's shown she deceitful for her own benefit. LOL... if there ever was a red flag, this is it.Raikojo17 said:
Yes, this is the point - why would she even consider such a proposal in the first place? Why tell her pimp? To make him jealous? Have him bu her clothes?jonwon said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The point is they will not be free - this will open the door for him to contact her again and again and again and make her feel obligated!!backbreaker said:
Yes another point put across, the GF is clearly in touch with the ex who is stating a sure sign of sexual interest in the girl, well she may as well get some clothes out of it, since the guy (OP) does not seem to mind that his GF is thinking of entertaining some Ex-Fuc* to the point of letting him buy her cloths or spend the day with here.backbreaker said: