"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Let me get this straight.. date = to have sex?

verysuave

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Just wondering.
1. Dating means having sex versus asking a girl out to go see a movie?

2. Once you start callin each other girlfriend / boyfriend that means you have had sex already?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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wtf
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AustinG

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go up to a girl you like say this

you:Hey girlfriend
(IF SHE SAYS)
HB:hey boyfriend
(THEN YOU)
you(whip it out)
there you go play by play action
 

goldenrocker91

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u dont have to have sex to go out with someone... im 15 ive had girlfriends and i havent gone past 2nd base
 

Patrick124

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and just cause u have sex doesnt mean your dating.
but usually in that case the girl is a skeet, and NOT worth dating.
lol
 

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There is more to it. Since this is a High School forum, im guessin your in highschool or younger, most chicks dont wanna have sex just yet!.. So dating is not based on sex, its more about going out with the person you have interest in, and also ofcourse to have fun. After a while sex can come in, or sex can never come in. Its all depends on the age and how attracted you guys are to each other. No offence but a lot of chicks in my school are sluts and *****es, they will bang any guy tht is well known and has $$.
 

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Depends how well you generated attraction and how much rapport and comfort you have. It also depends on you, you control the pace and where it goes, you should be in control.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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brwalker91

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dont listen to other people. you can date someone and them not be your girlfriend or in some cases boyfriend. anf just be cause they are your gf or bf dont mean you have had sex with them. it just means that you are dating eachother and no one else. so if people act stupid like that just tell em to go sit on a pole and rotate.
 
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