"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let me get this straight.. date = to have sex?

verysuave

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Just wondering.
1. Dating means having sex versus asking a girl out to go see a movie?

2. Once you start callin each other girlfriend / boyfriend that means you have had sex already?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Shocker

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wtf
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AustinG

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go up to a girl you like say this

you:Hey girlfriend
(IF SHE SAYS)
HB:hey boyfriend
(THEN YOU)
you(whip it out)
there you go play by play action
 

goldenrocker91

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u dont have to have sex to go out with someone... im 15 ive had girlfriends and i havent gone past 2nd base
 

Patrick124

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and just cause u have sex doesnt mean your dating.
but usually in that case the girl is a skeet, and NOT worth dating.
lol
 

shydude

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There is more to it. Since this is a High School forum, im guessin your in highschool or younger, most chicks dont wanna have sex just yet!.. So dating is not based on sex, its more about going out with the person you have interest in, and also ofcourse to have fun. After a while sex can come in, or sex can never come in. Its all depends on the age and how attracted you guys are to each other. No offence but a lot of chicks in my school are sluts and *****es, they will bang any guy tht is well known and has $$.
 

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Depends how well you generated attraction and how much rapport and comfort you have. It also depends on you, you control the pace and where it goes, you should be in control.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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brwalker91

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dont listen to other people. you can date someone and them not be your girlfriend or in some cases boyfriend. anf just be cause they are your gf or bf dont mean you have had sex with them. it just means that you are dating eachother and no one else. so if people act stupid like that just tell em to go sit on a pole and rotate.
 
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