Let Her Wonder.

[stevo]

Women want to wonder.

Wonder when next she'll see you.
Wonder what you're doing?
Wonder how long it'd take her to have you fully committed to her?
Wonder about what you'd do to her next?
Wonder what other life adventure you're out there enjoying without her?

Women expect to have something to complain about when they are with their girlfriends. And if you're living your life like you're supposed to and her sheet tests isn't working on you then she would have enough to complain about when she's with her girlfriends. Which means you're doing a good job. Being a man.

Going out of your way to make things quiet and smooth, (becoming the woman) takes away juicy complains she cant rant on about when she's with her girlfriends, which means you're doing a terrible job.

This is the sole reason normal women will start some sheet just to cause drama, thereby having some juicy story for the girls. You don't want this. When you manage how the boat gets rocked, you control the events that take place.

Often times, men make the mistake of killing the mystery. They tell all, rather than give hints.

Don't answer all her questions. Don't always give her attention. Don't make it a habit to apologize for your behavior. Don't prioritize her over your ambitions. You were a man before her, you'll remain a man with her and you'll be a man after her. Don't leave your center. Don't compete for her.

When a woman has had enough wondering, she'd reach out to you. Let her and welcome her when she reaches out.

The theory of supply and demand.
Do not supply information that's not been demanded.

This has been the secret to my recent successes with women. Let them come to you. And they will. The ones that come to you is almost a guaranteed slam dunk, every single time.

When she demands your attention by either coming over, initiating, being in your orbit, reward her with your supply of attention. When you supply attention (chasing) without demand, you make yourself cheap and uneventful.

Don't save her. Let her wheels spin. Let her wonder.

 

[Huffman]

True. Mystery and no contact are but one side of the coin.

To anyone reading this advice, don't forget that you must be truly excellent during the short time you are with her, that's the slightly harder part.
If you are bland, going away won't make her wonder at all.

 

[cola]

True. Mystery and no contact are but one side of the coin.

To anyone reading this advice, don't forget that you must be truly excellent during the short time you are with her, that's the slightly harder part.
If you are bland, going away won't make her wonder at all.

Mindblowing sex helps as well..

 

[skinnyguy]

She will only wonder if she is attracted to you. Without initial attraction, this post is irrelevant.

Most women have tons of options so in all likelihood she won't reach out to you first.

 

[Juanto]

Agree with skinnyguy, but these advices are also good while in a relationship. Keep her guessing as much as you can, and keep yourself busy without her too

 

[stevo]

To anyone reading this advice, don't forget that you must be truly excellent during the short time you are with her, that's the slightly harder part.
If you are bland, going away won't make her wonder at all.

That's why I preach this. Always Fondle A Beech.
Majority of the new thread on here isnt about initial attraction from the girl but instead the guys are killing the mystery by themselves and wondering why she's cold turkey.

She will only wonder if she is attracted to you.

What business would you have with a girl that's not attracted to you?

Sometimes I wonder if some ppl subconsciously set themselves up to fail. You're looking to bone her not be her "friend".