"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let her slip on by

Claudio1975

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Where I work we park and get shuttled to the office areas. I sat on the bus and saw a row back a woman I wanted to chat up, but someone I knew was sitting next to me. No problem, I thought, I’ll chat with her at the stop. I was carrying a box of stuff home a coworker had given me, so I sat it down to get a better grip once I was off the bus. And, I hesitated. She slipped on by.

I’m sure part it is me putting her on a pedestal. Keeping in mind that I’m curious about her and not on a quest to woo her could help, but that hesitation. How to overcome it. Any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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