"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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let her down easy

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hey lads

for once, instead of preaching noobie djs on the ways of the force, im asking for help from the rest of you

I hooked up with this girl about a month back, but she is starting to bore me and i want to get with this other chick that wants me to go drinking with her on the weekend. rest assured, if im single i will have no problem getting the new girl (or any other ones ;)) but i want to know how i can let the other girl down easy without hurting her feelings to much. she thinks things are going amazing so she will likely be really hurt if i break it off

what do you think :confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS!!!1

if she really likes you then any attempt to make it easier on her will seem condescending and offensive. i'd be a **** and make her hate you...so that she breaks it off and doesnt feel bad about it at all.
 
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"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"
 
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Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"
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lol, that sounds like it'd work pretty well. thanks alex

ps it sounds like this has come up before for you??

pss what ever happend to our relapse threads??!!??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've never been too tact with words.

I wouldn't mince them too much, just tell her that what you feel with her isn't what you are looking for and so you would like to go back being friends with her.

Women really like to hang onto those last glimmers of hope when you spring something on them like that, so you've got to stand firm and not cave in, even if she busts out the tears.
 
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