"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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let her down easy

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hey lads

for once, instead of preaching noobie djs on the ways of the force, im asking for help from the rest of you

I hooked up with this girl about a month back, but she is starting to bore me and i want to get with this other chick that wants me to go drinking with her on the weekend. rest assured, if im single i will have no problem getting the new girl (or any other ones ;)) but i want to know how i can let the other girl down easy without hurting her feelings to much. she thinks things are going amazing so she will likely be really hurt if i break it off

what do you think :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS!!!1

if she really likes you then any attempt to make it easier on her will seem condescending and offensive. i'd be a **** and make her hate you...so that she breaks it off and doesnt feel bad about it at all.
 
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"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"
 
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Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"
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lol, that sounds like it'd work pretty well. thanks alex

ps it sounds like this has come up before for you??

pss what ever happend to our relapse threads??!!??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've never been too tact with words.

I wouldn't mince them too much, just tell her that what you feel with her isn't what you are looking for and so you would like to go back being friends with her.

Women really like to hang onto those last glimmers of hope when you spring something on them like that, so you've got to stand firm and not cave in, even if she busts out the tears.
 
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