let her down easy

[Mr. Debonaire]

hey lads

for once, instead of preaching noobie djs on the ways of the force, im asking for help from the rest of you

I hooked up with this girl about a month back, but she is starting to bore me and i want to get with this other chick that wants me to go drinking with her on the weekend. rest assured, if im single i will have no problem getting the new girl (or any other ones ) but i want to know how i can let the other girl down easy without hurting her feelings to much. she thinks things are going amazing so she will likely be really hurt if i break it off

what do you think

 

[kiz]

LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS!!!1

if she really likes you then any attempt to make it easier on her will seem condescending and offensive. i'd be a **** and make her hate you...so that she breaks it off and doesnt feel bad about it at all.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

the problem is we were *cringes* friends first

 

[AlexTheGreat]

"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
"I miss our old friendship .... I'm not feeling the same as before, and that's how I'd like it ... I realized I really like you ... as a friend"

lol, that sounds like it'd work pretty well. thanks alex

ps it sounds like this has come up before for you??

pss what ever happend to our relapse threads??!!??

 

[Luscious]

I've never been too tact with words.

I wouldn't mince them too much, just tell her that what you feel with her isn't what you are looking for and so you would like to go back being friends with her.

Women really like to hang onto those last glimmers of hope when you spring something on them like that, so you've got to stand firm and not cave in, even if she busts out the tears.