let her do the chasing and keep IL high, I need clarification..

[solo1]

Ok, so the point is 'you are the prize'.
I understand that if a girl's IL is high enough, she will often be the one to suggest to do something and even be the one to call you, she will even display signs of interest. And if she's the independent type, she'll take turns paying for stuff.

Ok then, im guessing we allow her to do all that. On the man's part, he's the one that takes the lead (on the date and phone) and brings her places on the date (instead of asking, which shows you cant make decisions) and decides when to end the date... the guy makes the moves (kissing, kino)....afterall the guy is the leader right?

if there's anythign wrong about hte above or anything to add, please let me know.

And aside from the above, how do you maintain the high IL while letting her do the chasing? And how long shhould you allow her to do the chasing until you take on the part and do some chasing too?

 

[n00bPimp]

No no no.
A high interest level is maintained BY letting her chase you. When she doesn't have to chase you anymore then you have stopped being a challenge to her and have become boring. So chasing is bad when is done by the guy.

 

[solo1]

So is there any way to make her start chasing again, that is if she's seen your boring side and you no longer appear a challenge? And at this point, im guessing its no good to do the initiating, like being the one to call

 

[Skel]

Give her some competition.