"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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let her do the chasing and keep IL high, I need clarification..

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Ok, so the point is 'you are the prize'.
I understand that if a girl's IL is high enough, she will often be the one to suggest to do something and even be the one to call you, she will even display signs of interest. And if she's the independent type, she'll take turns paying for stuff.

Ok then, im guessing we allow her to do all that. On the man's part, he's the one that takes the lead (on the date and phone) and brings her places on the date (instead of asking, which shows you cant make decisions) and decides when to end the date... the guy makes the moves (kissing, kino)....afterall the guy is the leader right?

if there's anythign wrong about hte above or anything to add, please let me know.

And aside from the above, how do you maintain the high IL while letting her do the chasing? And how long shhould you allow her to do the chasing until you take on the part and do some chasing too?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So is there any way to make her start chasing again, that is if she's seen your boring side and you no longer appear a challenge? And at this point, im guessing its no good to do the initiating, like being the one to call
 
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