"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lessons learned from club event

Krassus

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1. If you're dancing with a girl, do whatever the hell you want to her right then and there. Think about yourself first, about her second. Get your priorities straight - trying not to get slapped shouldn't be one of them.
2. Come prepared with group extraction strategies. I was getting strong interest signals from two different girls there, both real hotties. However, they were both with friends and both times i didn't extract them right and crashed.
3. Always remember that your biggest failure always comes right before your biggest success. So if you've been having 'bad luck' all night and considering calling it quits, NOW is when your best opportunity of the night will present itself IF you've got your eyes open!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Omega

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Originally posted by Krassus
1. your biggest failure always comes right before your biggest success. So if you've been having 'bad luck' all night and considering calling it quits, NOW is when your best opportunity of the night will present itself IF you've got your eyes open!
Defently agree with this. Was out dancing and on my 12th girl of the night (all dirty dances, but at that point I was new to th egame), got a pretty nice makeout session in there cause the confidence was dripping off me.
 

manicmaximum

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i go clubbing a lot, and i have a good time just going w/ friends, i dont have to pick up/dance with random girls to have fun, i shyt you not.

but anyway, picking up/dancing with random girls can be pretty fun :cool:

i agree with all of your observations, but we may have a variation in style...

im not one of those dudes that randomly dances behind a girl and plays the numbers game all night, i at least try to get some kind of good EC before i move in

the prob is, it's extremely difficult (at least for me) to EC anyone while i'm out dancing in a sea of people...what does everyone do when youre in this situation?
 

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Who cares about EC, I use to but after today I'm having second thoughts. There were two girls at the becah checking out my friend, and most likely the girls themselves were a couple years older (at least 3). My friend is a year and a half older but he wasn't moving in so I did. I didn't close because of various reasons (they heard me talking to another girl on the phone and left, etc), however I DID managed to create intrest. What's this mean ? It means that if I can create intrest on a beach, you can do it at a sexually charged atmosphere such as a club. Just takes some manipulation. If she's not intrested completely she will tell you so. Girls are looking around for guys but they do it subtley and play the hard to get game most hte time, so your wasting your time just watching.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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