"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lessons learned from club event

Krassus

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1. If you're dancing with a girl, do whatever the hell you want to her right then and there. Think about yourself first, about her second. Get your priorities straight - trying not to get slapped shouldn't be one of them.
2. Come prepared with group extraction strategies. I was getting strong interest signals from two different girls there, both real hotties. However, they were both with friends and both times i didn't extract them right and crashed.
3. Always remember that your biggest failure always comes right before your biggest success. So if you've been having 'bad luck' all night and considering calling it quits, NOW is when your best opportunity of the night will present itself IF you've got your eyes open!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Omega

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Originally posted by Krassus
1. your biggest failure always comes right before your biggest success. So if you've been having 'bad luck' all night and considering calling it quits, NOW is when your best opportunity of the night will present itself IF you've got your eyes open!
Defently agree with this. Was out dancing and on my 12th girl of the night (all dirty dances, but at that point I was new to th egame), got a pretty nice makeout session in there cause the confidence was dripping off me.
 

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i go clubbing a lot, and i have a good time just going w/ friends, i dont have to pick up/dance with random girls to have fun, i shyt you not.

but anyway, picking up/dancing with random girls can be pretty fun :cool:

i agree with all of your observations, but we may have a variation in style...

im not one of those dudes that randomly dances behind a girl and plays the numbers game all night, i at least try to get some kind of good EC before i move in

the prob is, it's extremely difficult (at least for me) to EC anyone while i'm out dancing in a sea of people...what does everyone do when youre in this situation?
 

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Who cares about EC, I use to but after today I'm having second thoughts. There were two girls at the becah checking out my friend, and most likely the girls themselves were a couple years older (at least 3). My friend is a year and a half older but he wasn't moving in so I did. I didn't close because of various reasons (they heard me talking to another girl on the phone and left, etc), however I DID managed to create intrest. What's this mean ? It means that if I can create intrest on a beach, you can do it at a sexually charged atmosphere such as a club. Just takes some manipulation. If she's not intrested completely she will tell you so. Girls are looking around for guys but they do it subtley and play the hard to get game most hte time, so your wasting your time just watching.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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