Black Widow Void
Master Don Juan
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This is a posting where we humble ourselves a little; admitting our previous blunders, confusion etc.. and how we learned and improved from it all.
Perhaps some younger or less experienced viewers might learn from our blunders.
For instance;
When younger, it seemed like I was cursed (it makes sense now).
I used to wonder... "why is it that girlfriends seem to take me for granted, but when I've finally had enough and done with them... they suddenly become everything I wanted in them?"
I thought that I was doomed because it seemed like a bad never-ending pattern.
I now realize that I (initially) made too many concessions for them. They could push boundaries and get away with things (that they shouldn't have) .
Once I'd had enough, I was exerting power, non-attachment, no dependency on the outcome etc... It's what they wanted in the first place, but I couldn't see it.
Perhaps some younger or less experienced viewers might learn from our blunders.
For instance;
When younger, it seemed like I was cursed (it makes sense now).
I used to wonder... "why is it that girlfriends seem to take me for granted, but when I've finally had enough and done with them... they suddenly become everything I wanted in them?"
I thought that I was doomed because it seemed like a bad never-ending pattern.
I now realize that I (initially) made too many concessions for them. They could push boundaries and get away with things (that they shouldn't have) .
Once I'd had enough, I was exerting power, non-attachment, no dependency on the outcome etc... It's what they wanted in the first place, but I couldn't see it.