Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Okay maybe not like that...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lesson on Appearance
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Recently (this year) I really changed my style. Went from relaly ghetto look, To half dress half ghetto look (using my dress pants with the ghetto shirts) now im wearing some ghetto shirts and alot of collard shirts, they go good with my dress pants/shorts (D!ckies). More than doubling my comments. (Still wear shoes like reebok classics and etc). I got kind of a different look than any other guy in my school.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Yah I love my white reeboks. The only problem is if I'm going to wear my white reeboks, I gotta dress down a little. Then I have more of an 'Usher' type style.
I prefer my classy though. Man I wish I had a digital camera.
I prefer my classy though. Man I wish I had a digital camera.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I've been through a similar change. I went from ghetto-ish, to decently dressed, to preppy, and now I'm very fond of my dress pants, button ups, dress shoes, fake diamond earrings, short spikey hair...just all around clean cut and stylish. They notice [/QUOTE
you sound just like me. used to where those pinwheel fitted caps, jerseys, and such. now i regularly where button-ups, sometimes dress pants too. i still where a matching pinwheel hat once a week, but not in an attempt to be a wigger. only if it matches my button-up.
you sound just like me. used to where those pinwheel fitted caps, jerseys, and such. now i regularly where button-ups, sometimes dress pants too. i still where a matching pinwheel hat once a week, but not in an attempt to be a wigger
. only if it matches my button-up.it seems that is a popular change nowa days. ghetto to semi-ghetto or ghetto to preppy. that ghetto stuff used to be cool i think but after a while it gets played out. change is good. you will get good results if you make the right change. any one else who thinks other wise